Ron San Angelo’s - Top 10 Ways to Feel Good about You!
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A positive outlook on life requires
action on your part! You can muddle through life like most people or
you can make a decision to take control and make your own life the best it can
be!
- Develop a
written Daily Plan and stick to it. Establish goals you
want to accomplish and check off the items as you complete them. The sense
of accomplishment will make you feel better and you will get more things
done! Make sure a reward for accomplishing your tasks is the last
thing on you list.
- Take pride
in your appearance. Dress appropriately for whatever you are
doing and look your best. Dressing sharply will make you more confident
and you will feel better about yourself. Even if you are just meeting a
friend for coffee, going to the grocery
store, or doing any kind of routine event.
- Learn
something new each day. Read a book, go to a seminar, or
attend some cultural event. People who invest in themselves and their future
are always happier then those who follow the same routine.
- Be the
best you can be. Don’t take the shortcuts. Make sure that
whatever you need to get done you do it to the best of your ability. Take
pride in the work that you do and others will come to recognize you for
your own abilities.
- Help
others who need it.
There is no better feeling in this world then helping someone else.
Join a community group, donate to a needy cause, or lend a helping hand to
a friend or neighbor. The reward you will receive in your own self worth
will be worth the effort.
- Stand for
your beliefs and values. Don’t cave in to the beliefs or values of
others when you know in your heart that they are wrong. Stand for core
principles such as honesty and integrity. These are the foundations that
will give you strength even in the most difficult of times.
- Don’t give
in to fear. Too often we never challenge ourselves. We let
fear stop us from achieving our goals. Start off with the small things you
may be afraid of and conquer them one at a time. You will soon find that
they were not nearly as difficult to overcome as your mind told you they
were.
- Think positively. Stop focusing on what you can’t do and focus on what
you can. We spend so much time on the negative things in our lives that we
forget about all the wonderful things that are happening. Always think
about your strengths and build on the positives. Deal with negative issues
as quickly as possible and get them out of the way.
- Stay away from negative people.
There are always people who will try and
drag you down. They will complain about everything and it will be nearly
impossible for you to make them happy. They seem to enjoy wallowing in
their misery. You have a choice. Stay and be miserable with them or find
more positive people to associate with.
- Do
something positive for yourself every day. As part of our
daily lives we think about everyone else. Our spouses, children,
coworkers, and our friends are all important to our lives, but in order
for us to be happy we have to think about ourselves as well. It is okay to
be a little selfish at times. We need to feel good about ourselves, before
we can make those we care about feel good about themselves.